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BookNotes is your monthly guide to good, informative reading. Each month BookNotes will feature the Editor's choice of titles. This month our Editor has selected these books on balancing a career and home life for mothers.

A Mother's Place: Choosing Work and Family Without Guilt or Blame

Publisher:
HarperCollins

Author:
Susan Chira
Mothers today are under siege. Society belittles mothers at home while telling mothers at work they are blighting their children's lives. Susan Chira, a veteran New York Times journalist, separates myth from reality, showing how the media, the courts, and politicians have conducted a backlash against working mothers that hurts all women. Here, she reviews the latest scientific research and shows, contrary to popular belief, that children of working mothers turn out just as well as those raised by stay-at-home mothers. But instead of telling mothers where their place should be, Chira wants to reframe this distorted debate and help mothers get where they want to be, whether at home or at work.
When Mothers Work: Loving Our Children Without Sacrificing Our Selves

Publisher:
Perseus Publishing

Author:
Joan K. Peters

Must mothers today be torn by the conflict between work and family? Drawing upon real-life stories, contemporary psychology, and social trends, author Joan K. Peters offers a complex and convincing portrait of the ways women and children prosper when old ideas of mothering are left behind. Also, she offers practical, hands-on strategies for mothers struggling to balance work, family, and self.*


Working Mothers 101: How to Organize Your Life, Your Children, and Your Career to Stop Feeling Guilty and Start Enjoying It All

Publisher:


Author:
Katherine Wyse Goldman
Motherhood comes naturally.Working motherhood doesn't.

Here's where you'll learn everything you need to get your life in order:

How to create a home where people actually hang up their jackets;What to do with all those indispensable spelling tests and toddler works of art; How to decide which type of child care is best for you at any given moment; How to sort out the times you really have to be at your child's school; How a time-crazed mother can make, keep and entertain friends; How to sign up for and transport children to after-school activities, sports, music lessons and play dates when you can't be at any of them; What to tell your boss when you don't want to travel so much; The lost art of raising respectful children; The best way to date your husband; The first rule of convenience for birthday parties; Eleven ways to take care of yourself without taking any extra time; And, finally, delegating responsibilities you thought were yours and yours alone

This practical strategy is for the millions of working mothers struggling to make it all work.Don't let your guilt slow you down. Katherine Wyse Goldman interviewed hundreds of mothers to come up with the tips, plans of action and decisions that have worked for career women around the country. Here's everything you need when you want to get control of your time, your life and your future. Here's how to make your home run as smoothly as a Fortune 500 corporation.




Creating a Life: Professional Women and the Quest for Children

Publisher:
Talk Miramax Books

Author:
Sylvia Ann Hewlett

From Publishers Weekly
"Between a third and a half of all high-achieving women in America do not have children" and "the vast majority yearn" for them, says Hewlett, founder of the National Parenting Association. In this study of baby lust, Hewlett portrays the anguished hand-wringing by middle-aged women who were career-obsessed throughout their 20s and 30s, only to wake up single at 40, biological clocks all petered out. Infertility treatment is not a solution, she says; it's expensive, dangerous to women's health and unlikely to produce a pregnancy, much less a live, healthy baby. Moms and potential moms from playwright Wendy Wasserstein to a 46-year-old single woman who traveled to China to adopt illustrate Hewlett's thesis that "some of the most heartfelt struggles of the breakthrough generation have centered on the attempt to snatch a child from the jaws of menopause. A few succeed; most do not." Hewlett attests that "if high-altitude careers inevitably exact a price, it's profoundly unfair that the highest prices... are paid by women." "Self-indulgent" women might try to have a child and a career by hiring a nanny, but for Hewlett, it's more "courageous" for a woman to forgo childbearing if a career is her real goal. Hewlett's advice to young women is strangely retro: get married you'll be happier and healthier. She counsels them to give "urgent priority" to finding a marriage partner fast, "have your first baby before 35" and look for work at a family-friendly corporation. Though ardently argued, her case is unconvincing.


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